2019 has been the most unstable yet exhilarating year of my life. I’ve had to learn, unlearn and relearn a lot of things. The lessons I refused to learn, life slapped into me. I’ve gone through intense setbacks, multiple days where I’d break down for no particular reason and cry because nothing seemed to be working. It was an intense emotional and spiritual journey for me.

I began to call myself to order the moment I caught myself wondering what it would be like If I died.

Now to the part I said I learned, unlearned and relearned. Those lessons changed my life and opened my eyes to a lot of WHY’s.

– Why things happen the way they do.

– Why I where I am.

– Why Man A will react a certain way and Man B wouldn’t.

– Why many die broke.

The major Why-

– Why am I here on earth?

• What is my purpose?

• How do I intend achieving it?

• What are the things I’d need to do to ensure this?

This led me to conduct a soul search exercise on myself and I got visible results. Because of this, I am in a much better mental space than I was seven months back.

P.S- If you’d like to go through this exercise also, I’ll be here to help you all through. If your answer is in the affirmative, please click Here

All of that which I’ve learned will be shared on this platform. This is not something you’d wanna miss.

But firstly, I advice you read this

If you’ve got a great nose which I presume and pray you have, you’d have been able to sniff out the fact that this blogpost is coming to an end.

Yes I know, it felt like forever to me too.

To wrap this up, I’m going to leave you with the Triple L’s-

Let Love Lead- “an act of deliberately choosing to love despite all odds.”

What lessons did 2019 teach you? Do share them with me in comment section.

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Richard · December 14, 2019 at 9:03 PM

Great read!!!

Marvis · December 14, 2019 at 9:16 PM

As usual, you’ve given us yet another beautiful post. Thank you dear and well done.

    Tomi · December 15, 2019 at 12:04 AM

    What will I do without you?

Mary · December 16, 2019 at 6:43 PM

Such a beautiful write up, I definitely got a lot from this.

    Tomi · December 16, 2019 at 6:58 PM

    I’m glad you did Mary. Go excel.

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